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Ok, guys, I really hate doing things like this but I barely have any other choice. In less than two weeks (13 days to be precise) I am moving out of my hometown to London. I have already bought an one way ticket, and this is settled. This is my chance to escape home. Why is it so important for me…

You came up with a nice story, didn’t you? It’s such a shame that it isn’t true… but you hope to find some naive people to get what you want, I know that. That’s not the first time and it’s not the last, I know that too. And you use your girlfriend to get money, you take everything she has… she’s not the first, there were girls before. There was me, for example.
And yes, getting job in Poland is hard for non-cis, non-hetero people and yet I know some that got nice job (including me). So it’s not impossible. 
And still, you could go if you want, you just lie that they keep you by force. You have a ticket so why you don’t just go? You could get a temporary job in London too, you know. Or even in Poland… but you have to want to get job.
And I know you’re not a student anymore and you promised your parents you won’t drop from university, so don’t pretend you don’t know what they are angry for. I’d been there, when you made your promise. I know what I’m talking about.
And I’ll ask… do you have a permission for crowdfunding? If not, what you do, is illegal. So… be careful.
So don’t pretend you’re a victim, ‘cause you’re not. And you weren’t a virgin for a long time… not like you said, you had lost your virginity in 2014. We both know that’s not true. 
You’re a liar and a cheater. Amd megalomaniac.

I feel like I need to add something here. I usually don’t do that. I usually don’t take my private stuff to the public. But after all I’ve read I feel like more people should know the truth. 

And the truth is - you are not that weak, poor, hurt person you say you are. As Sionna perfectly said, you are a liar, cheater and megalomaniac. Sometimes I’m not even sure if you believe in that person you are creating, or are you just so good at pretending. 

And I want all the people defending him here to read it, I want his girlfriend to read it - YOU ARE NOT THE FIRST TO BELIEVE HIM. Don’t worry, it doesn’t last long. He gets bored quite quickly. For me it lasted for two years, well, with some breaks. First, he was cheating on a different girl with me. Soon he was cheating me with a different girl. A year later it was back to cheating a different girl with me (I’m so, so sorry, G.). And that’s only what I know of, I have no idea how many other girls were actually there. Well now he has a new one. Good luck with that.

There is one thing that I can admit he is good at - manipulation. When you are with him, you want to believe him and all of this things I wrote down here seem a hateful crap. But when the time passes and you get to see the true picture, you feel quite shitty actually. Trust me, been there, done that. The aftermath of knowing him is basically “what the fuck was I thinking”. 

I’m really sorry to get all this private shit up here. But I feel bad when I see all the people that trust this manipulative bastard. I want everyone who knows him to read it and think - at least for a second - if he truly is the person he says he is. 

PS. He was also trying to pull this virgin crap on me. Funny. 

PS2. If that was tl;dr here’s all you need to know - tumblr user “benedictcarltoncumberbatchs" is a dangerous, toxic and insincere person that destroys other people by manipulation. You should not trust him. He’s not as weak as he reckons. 

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"Image Credit: Carol Rossetti

When Brazilian graphic designer Carol Rossetti began posting colorful illustrations of women and their stories to Facebook, she had no idea how popular they would become. 

Thousands of shares throughout the world later, the appeal of Rosetti’s work is clear. Much like the street art phenomenon Stop Telling Women To Smile, Rossetti’s empowering images are the kind you want to post on every street corner, as both a reminder and affirmation of women’s bodily autonomy. 

"It has always bothered me, the world’s attempts to control women’s bodies, behavior and identities," Rossetti told Mic via email. "It’s a kind of oppression so deeply entangled in our culture that most people don’t even see it’s there, and how cruel it can be."

Rossetti’s illustrations touch upon an impressive range of intersectional topics, including LGBTQ identity, body image, ageism, racism, sexism and ableism. Some characters are based on the experiences of friends or her own life, while others draw inspiration from the stories many women have shared across the Internet. 

"I see those situations I portray every day," she wrote. "I lived some of them myself."

Despite quickly garnering thousands of enthusiastic comments and shares on Facebook, the project started as something personal — so personal, in fact, that Rossetti is still figuring out what to call it. For now, the images reside in albums simply titled “WOMEN in english!" or "Mujeres en español!" which is fitting: Rossetti’s illustrations encompass a vast set of experiences that together create a powerful picture of both women’s identity and oppression.

One of the most interesting aspects of the project is the way it has struck such a global chord. Rossetti originally wrote the text of the illustrations in Portuguese, and then worked with an Australian woman to translate them to English. A group of Israeli feminists also took it upon themselves to create versions of the illustrations in Hebrew. Now, more people have reached out to Rossetti through Facebook and offered to translate her work into even more languages. Next on the docket? Spanish, Russian, German and Lithuanian.

It’s an inspiring show of global solidarity, but the message of Rossetti’s art is clear in any language. Above all, her images celebrate being true to oneself, respecting others and questioning what society tells us is acceptable or beautiful.

"I can’t change the world by myself," Rossetti said. "But I’d love to know that my work made people review their privileges and be more open to understanding and respecting one another."

From the site: All images courtesy Carol Rossetti and used with permission. You can find more illustrations, as well as more languages, on her Facebook page.

I like how the last one ends with “That’s right girls, just fuck it” because these all should end like that. 

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